Ram Dass – Here and Now – Ep. 246 – How to Be Responsive, Not Reactive

In this classic talk from 1987, Ram Dass explores working with suffering, keeping our hearts open, finding the intuitive heart space, and being responsive rather than reactive.

“As you quiet your mind just a little bit, you get so that you’re not automatically reacting to everything. You become what’s called responsive rather than reactive. In other words, something happens and there’s a moment when it’s just happening, you’re just with it. As your awareness expands to include more than your separate self, it’s as if you’re part of the gestalt of it all, and you experience the totality of it. And then, out of that quietness comes an act that is appropriate to that moment.” – Ram Dass

This episode is a continuation of the talk started in Here and Now Ep. 245 – Taking Off Our Spacesuit. In this week’s episode:
  • Using his stepmother’s death as an example, Ram Dass explores how pain and suffering can become a curriculum through which one awakens.
  • Ram Dass discusses how he has begun to fall in love with everyone, and how his guru opened him up to the possibility of unconditional love. If we’re caught in our separateness, it’s hard to keep our hearts open.
  • Ram Dass shares classic stories of how other beings, including a dolphin, have helped him escape the trap of his own mind and find the intuitive heart space. He talks about taking care of his aging father and learning how to just be present with him.
  • Finally, Ram Dass explores the difference between being reactive and being responsive, reading a story from ‘How Can I Help?’ to illustrate his point. He talks about how, when we are quiet enough on the inside, we can begin to hear how to awaken through the journey of the spirit.

“I have always treasured those beings who help me escape from the traps of my own mind. And I treasure when I am a being who can be an environment where other people can escape from the traps they’re stuck in. ‘Cause everybody takes themselves so seriously, they milk their melodrama so much.” – Ram Dass


1 thought on “Ram Dass – Here and Now – Ep. 246 – How to Be Responsive, Not Reactive”

  1. I can’t quite recall when Ram has or exactly what he was discussing, but I think it was consciousness. He mentioned that the last gate you pass, in order to sit with Christ, is letting go of all judgement. I wanted to learn more about the gates he was referring too. What precedes the last gate. Again, forgive me for not fully knowing all what he was referring to, but it’s really been on my mind the last few months and I really want to start that journey.


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